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Have I entirely destroyed my life by sharing nudes online?

Pitfalls of sharing nudity online

For many many years years I have been taking and sharing photos of me entirely nude online. My intentions were to promote the nudist lifestyle and show others that nudity isn’t sexual. You see, I believe that by showing nudity it helps remove the stigma around nudity. To avoid legal trouble from using images of others, I decided to shoot & share myself nude.

Some people I know in real life have supported me while others grew disturbed and blocked me. It’s crazy to me to think that so many are disturbed by simple nudity.

For now, I think I need to slow down, share less nudity and focus on my future. I need to do this because I want to find a better job than simply working in a factory.

Yes, I’m aware the damage has already been done. People have saved, reposted my nudes all over the internet and I can’t remove them. I never had an issue being seen nude however, it’s others in society that have issues with my nudity.

Job Issues

I’ve had several jobs over the past 20+ years from office jobs, to factory jobs. None of these jobs have directly fired me due to my online nudity. However, I can’t help to wonder if my online nudity is effecting me landing a better job.

My current job is in a factory, I have worked here for almost 3 years now. During these years I continued to be very public about nudism. Public in fact that co-workers found my nudes, passed them around work. Now everybody has seen my nudes online. Doesn’t bother me that they saw them, but doesn’t help me find a new job.

Certain jobs I would like to land going forward would frown upon this type of public nudity. I know, the damage has been done, I can’t remove my nudes from the internet especially when people have saved and republished them. What I can do though is clean up my main accounts and try to be a bit more discreate about it.

Loss of relationships

I have went through multiple partners over my lifetime for various reasons. Some relationships simply weren’t meant to be while others didn’t like me sharing nudity.

My latest relationship with Telethia ended because she was embarrassed by my online nudity. She demanded that I quit sharing nudes online because it destroyed the intimacy between us. At one point she attempted payback and was sending other men her nudes and sharing them publicly online.

Other partners simply cheated on me and found other partners who behave like I do.

Anybody who dates me has to be ok with the fact there are nudes of me all over the net but I’m finding out most women aren’t ok with it. I’m not afraid of ending up alone, I just don’t want to end up alone and broke..

Family

My entire family has now stumbled upon my nudes online. My mom finally embraced it and is ok with me being nude even if she is visiting. Again, not bothered by this but it would bother others.

Unashamed

I’m not ashamed of being nude or being seen nude by anybody which I have made clear. I simply haven’t planned for retirement up to this point and at 45 I should already be way ahead of where I am. At some point I need to make some changes for me and think about that more seriously.

Does any of this make sense? Leave a comment below.


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Matt Crawford

I live in Iowa and have a ton of hobbies and interests. I'm also a huge geek and interested in photography, computers, gaming, etc. Read more about me on the About Me page.